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Jada's Bald Reality: The Plight of Modern Women with Alopecia

Yes! It was truly shocking what happened this past Sunday on the 94th Annual Academy Oscar Awards ceremony. I didn’t watch it this year, but it was still the slap that was heard and seen around the televised world with award winning actor Will Smith and the ever-hysterical comedian Chris Rock somehow front and center in the senseless controversy. Is Will to be blamed for reacting so strongly and lack of restraint to a joke about his wife told in poor taste? Or did Chris Rock mercilessly provoke Will into doing this unforgiveable and unforgettable act? Whether you take one side versus the other, I think the true shame lies in the impetus that is being overshadowed and buried under the over the top and unforeseen actions that took place that night. We should take a moment to refocus our attention to Jada Pinkett-Smith’s plight and ongoing struggles with the disorder known as Alopecia. It is not just her struggles alone. As it turns out from my research, this affects quite a few women and education on the matter is greatly needed.

What is Alopecia?

According to WebMD.com, Alopecia (aka Alopecia Areata) is an autoimmune disorder that causes hair loss wherein large clumps of the person’s hair spanning the size range of a quarter or larger falls out leaving a bald spot or multiple bald spots. Hair loss amount, size of bald spots and location of bald spots may vary from person to person. Some of the hair may grow back in. Hair may then fall out in other areas. And hair just might fall out permanently. What is happening, as far as doctors know, is the immune system attacks the hair follicles leading to this mysterious phenomenon. Right now, no one knows what causes this to occur.  In their article, VeryWellHealth.com states that Alopecia Areata affects almost 2% of the population in the United States. They also advise that 2/3 of women experience some form of hair loss (perhaps the type that is temporary due to external factors and extreme circumstances). But, according to HarvardHealth.edu, whose article was more specific, explained that 1/3 of women experience Alopecia some time in their lives. Among women that experience menopause, 2/3 of women in this subgroup will experience Alopecia.

Who Is Susceptible?

Referring back to WebMD.com, people that tend to have one or more of the following have an increased chance of having this disorder: 

  • A family member who has it 
  • Asthma
  • Down Syndrome 
  • Pernicious anemia
  • Thyroid disease
  • Vitiligo

Women and Awareness

If you are a woman reading these facts with me, did you know about this? I ask because although I was aware of this condition through my life, I never explored this topic too deeply because I just didn’t want to know. The thought that it could happen to me was all too much to think about and overwhelming, so I never bothered to look into it any more than I had to out of fear. And I just thought that I should consider myself lucky if something like this does not happen to me at all. If it did, maybe I’ll just be too old to care. So, why bother court disaster and start looking into it? It held no meaning to me, no sympathy or empathy, no significance and I just wanted to keep it that way until now. I am now aware how important it is to spread awareness on important topics such as this and to move past my old ways of thinking that held me back as a human being on becoming more knowledgeable and compassionate towards others and their unique experiences and situations. On these matters, woman to woman, I feel that I shouldn’t have to directly experience this disorder firsthand before I educate myself to understand how someone else would feel in this situation.

Jada’s Bald Reality Televised

Jada Pinkett-Smith was diagnosed with Alopecia since 2018 and has bravely decided to be open and share her diagnosis with her audience and the world to give this disorder a face for the women that suffer in silence and in shame from a disorder that can be highly emotionally detrimental to ones mental health and wellbeing. Since we as women are so emotionally attached to our hair, this disorder is just humiliating and embarrassing to have to go through. Also, we have been taught by society that hair is synonymous with femininity. Long flowing thick mane of hair is timeless and is found highly desirable. This is why hair care products are a huge business and prevalent amongst most women. Personally, that is why I still have discontinued hair care products that I keep around and don’t throw away because I remember which ones worked fantastically for important events in my life. Even if you are a woman that can’t be bothered with her hair (I’ve now evolved into this stage for better or for the worse), you are still keenly aware of its importance to a woman and society. I am pointing all of this out because of the sad and surprising reaction I witnessed from seeing the video segments online. And I don’t mean her husband’s reaction. I am referring to Jada’s reaction. When the joke was initially told, she became visibly annoyed and resorted to rolling her eyes.

Her.

She.

Okay, let me repeat that one more time but with fuller detail. She, Jada Pinkett-Smith rolled her eyes! Big time multi-talented actress, talk show host, producer, screenwriter, singer, mother, stepmother, wife, companion, friend, daughter, and businesswoman, seven time nominated Daytime Emmy Award winner allowed herself to feel something in that moment to roll her eyes. Did you know she even wrote a children’s book that was #2 on The New York Times Best Seller’s List? And of course, not to mention that she is beautiful. But in that moment, when that bad joke happened, none of that mattered. She was as vulnerable as the rest of us. One might ask “how could that be?” because you would perceive her as having a heck of a lot more than the average person could ever dream of. The Alopecia did not just expose the obvious in that moment but also exposed her insecurities as a woman with the struggles of not only managing and maintaining the level of being a successful, strong, independent, and confident woman reflective of this very vicarious, hectic and modern time but somehow maintain her femininity too and in a public forum heaping with toxic judgment every step of the way. The more successful you are the more transparent you become. People want to know “why you?” and why not them. You are up for discussion no matter how much privacy you try to preserve. So yes, in that very moment when that bad joke was told because it was indeed tasteless (not even up to Chris Rock’s usual level of humor), it got to her.  In that moment the things that she had been building towards and putting together to be that strong evolved woman who was feminine too was in question and being openly and haughtily judged. The joke got to her because she is human and even with all of the wonderful things she has in her life, she could still be hurt. Now I pose new questions for you to ponder, if that one joke can affect such an accomplished woman, what about the average woman with Alopecia? How does she feel about dealing with the humiliation and absurdity of this disorder that can single handedly rob women (good women) of their dignity and grace with just the uttering of a bad joke or a terse phrase? What about her and what can we do for her?

A lot of the articles that I have read are absolutely right. The televised slap, the anger, the drama, and idle gossip that erupted in the aftermath of the situation is overshadowing the opportunity to educate others about this disorder so that we can help others that are emotionally suffering and let them know that no matter what it will be okay. Your self-worth, value, and femininity as a woman and as a person is not wrapped up in your hair.

Signs of Alopecia Areata

As a woman if you think that you might have Alopecia but are unsure, look out for the following:

  • Unusual bald spots on your body besides your scalp.
  • There are multiple bald spots (size increases and might even merge into a bigger one).
  • Hair loss occurs rapidly (and seems to happen all at once or overnight).
  • Cold weather seems to exacerbate the problem.
  • Check the state of your finger and toenails. (Are they red, brittle and/or pitted?).

If you are experiencing any of these symptoms, don’t be afraid or hesitate to make an appointment with your family doctor immediately because hair loss could also be a symptom of a different kind of health disorder or health issue. You won’t know until you go!

Article Resources

In the face of true ignorance: Be aware. Be supportive.

I find that the best kind of education is from multiple sources to increase one’s understanding on a specific topic. So please feel free to not only read my blog article but also consider reading the articles below that I obtained my facts from and utilized to form my opinions.

 

 Alopecia Areata

Medically Reviewed by Hansa D. Bhargava, MD on September 10, 2020 https://www.webmd.com/skin-problems-and-treatments/guide/alopecia-areata

 

Jada Pinkett Smith's hair loss, noted at the Oscars, is a struggle for many women

By Anastasia Tsioulcas https://www.npr.org/2022/03/28/1089133964/whats-behind-the-slap-will-smith-gave-chris-rock-at-the-oscars

 

Treating female pattern hair loss

By Harvard Health Publishing/Harvard Medical School https://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/treating-female-pattern-hair-loss

 

Hair Loss and Thinning Hair in Women

By Tracee Cornforth https://www.verywellhealth.com/hair-loss-in-women-3520761

 

Overview of Fibromyalgia Hair Loss

By Adrienne Dellwo https://www.verywellhealth.com/hair-problems-in-fibromyalgia-715709

 

How Jada Pinkett Smith is uplifting Black women with alopecia

By Claretta Bellamy https://www.nbcnews.com/news/nbcblk/jada-pinkett-smith-uplifting-black-women-alopecia-rcna11273

 

Please feel free to check it out and don’t be afraid to reach out to me and let me know what you think!

I’m always here for you when you need me to be!

Until next time… Keep it Fired up Superstar!



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